10 Specific Feelings to Know You Are on the Right Path in Life...

ASKYE
Jan 4
5 min read

Updated: Mar 6

Let’s face it—life isn’t always a smooth ride. It’s more like a rollercoaster with surprise loops, unexpected drops, and, occasionally, that weird moment when you realize you’re having way more fun than you thought you would. But how do you know if you're on the right track? I mean, how can you tell that your soul isn’t just in “survival mode” but actually heading toward your dream life? Spoiler alert: It’s all about feelings. And no, I’m not talking about the "I need to cry into a tub of ice cream" kind of feelings (though we’ve all been there hehe). These are the empowering, go-getter, life-is-shaping-up kind of vibes.

Here are 10 specific feelings that’ll let you know that you’re on the path to success, growth, and happiness. Let me know in the comments which ones resonate with you!

1. You Feel Weirdly Calm Amidst Chaos

What it feels like: Think of a serene yoga pose while the world around you is going through a storm. A little disorienting, right? But if you’ve ever felt that inner peace—even when everything seems to be falling apart—that’s a sign that you're grounded in your purpose.
Why it matters: This calm doesn’t mean life is perfect; it’s about trusting that everything is unfolding the way it’s supposed to. You’re not sweating the small stuff anymore. Your inner zen is the real MVP.
Tip: Practice mindfulness or meditation to keep this feeling alive. It’s like hitting the reset button for your soul.

2. You’re More Excited About Your Growth Than Your Comfort Zone

What it feels like: You know you’re doing something right when the thought of stepping out of your comfort zone excites you more than Netflix and chill. It's that rush you get from taking on a challenge, learning something new, or tackling your goals.
Why it matters: If you’re excited to grow, evolve, and push yourself, you’re headed in the right direction. Growth is all about discomfort—and that's the sweet spot of personal development.
Tip: Set a small challenge for yourself each week. Even if it's as simple as trying a new hobby or learning a new skill, you’ll feel that “YES” moment when you conquer it.

3. You Feel Energized After Helping Others

What it feels like: Whether it's giving a friend a pep talk, volunteering, or supporting a colleague, you notice that you feel more alive when you’re lifting others up. It’s like your energy multiplies when you share.
Why it matters: Helping others is often a sign that you’re aligned with your values. You’re not just doing things for yourself; you're making a positive impact on the world.
Tip: Keep a gratitude journal to remind yourself of the good you’re doing. You'll be surprised how much this amplifies your energy and joy.

4. You Can Laugh at Your Own Mistakes

What it feels like: You try something new, fail, and instead of freaking out, you laugh. Whether it’s a business venture that flopped or a kitchen disaster, you now see setbacks as learning experiences rather than signs that you're doomed. You will learn that mistakes make progress. Even the richest of millionaires make mistakes along their journey.
Why it matters: This shift in perspective means you’re letting go of perfectionism and embracing growth. Every mistake is a stepping stone to success.
Tip: When you mess up, take a deep breath, laugh, and ask yourself, "What did I learn from this?" It takes the pressure off and makes life a lot more fun.

5. You’re Attracted to New Opportunities Like a Magnet

What it feels like: Suddenly, people are reaching out to you with opportunities that align with your goals—whether it's work, side projects, or personal growth. You’re not actively seeking them, but they’re appearing at just the right time.
Why it matters: This is the universe (or just great timing) telling you that you’re putting the right energy out into the world. When you’re aligned with your purpose, opportunities just seem to find you.
Tip: Be open and receptive to new things, even if they don’t look exactly like what you expected. They might be even better than you imagined.

6. You Feel Like You’re Finally Getting to Know Yourself

What it feels like: You’re starting to recognize the "real you"—your likes, dislikes, boundaries, strengths, and quirks. You’re getting more in touch with your inner self and understanding your worth.
Why it matters: Self-awareness is the key to living authentically. When you know who you are, you stop apologizing for being yourself and start showing up as the confident woman you were meant to be.
Tip: Spend some time journaling or reflecting on your experiences. Writing it down helps clarify what’s important to you.

7. You’re Surrounding Yourself with People Who Lift You Up

What it feels like: The drama has faded, and you find yourself spending more time with people who motivate, support, and inspire you. No more toxic energy or “frenemies” in your circle. You start to notice that you no longer gravitate toward anyone who sucks energy out of you. You are becoming stronger in your intuition and can discern who is FOR you and who is NOT for you.
Why it matters: The people you spend time with play a huge role in shaping your mindset and life choices. If you're with positive, ambitious individuals, you’ll feel more confident in your path.
Tip: Take a close look at your inner circle. Are they elevating you or draining you? Make room for people who lift you higher!

8. You Have the Courage to Say "No" (and Mean It!)

What it feels like: You're no longer afraid to turn down opportunities, plans, or commitments that don't align with your goals. You’re reclaiming your time and energy. Saying "no" to friends you used to never be able to say "no" too feels like it just happens naturally now because you are more aligned with your life purpose.
Why it matters: Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining mental and emotional well-being. Saying "no" is a superpower—especially when it's in alignment with your priorities.
Tip: Practice saying “no” in small situations and build up to bigger ones. You’ll feel more in control of your life, and it’ll become second nature.

9. You’re Not Scared to Dream Big (Even If It Feels Scary)

What it feels like: You’re dreaming about things that once seemed impossible—starting that business, traveling the world, or writing that book. And instead of feeling overwhelmed, you feel excited and ready for the challenge. You find yourself spending more time working on the things that once felt scary or impossible to you.
Why it matters: Dreaming big means you’re tapping into your true potential. It’s a sign that you're thinking outside the box and envisioning a life that excites you.
Tip: Break those big dreams into smaller, actionable steps. When you focus on one step at a time, the big dream doesn’t seem so scary anymore.

10. You Feel Grateful for Where You Are, Even While You Strive for More

What it feels like: You feel a deep sense of gratitude for your current journey, no matter where you are on the path. You’ve learned to appreciate the present moment, even if it’s not perfect. You are awakening to the fact that life is a JOURNEY and you feel less stressed about the timeline of when it will all unfold for you, and are simply just enjoying the process.
Why it matters: Gratitude keeps you grounded and focused. It helps you appreciate how far you've come, while still motivating you to keep growing.
Tip: Make gratitude a daily habit. Write down three things you’re thankful for each day—it can shift your mindset and keep you feeling positive no matter what.

So, there you have it—10 feelings that show you’re on the right path. Life isn't about perfection; it’s about progress. Celebrate each moment of growth, laugh at the hiccups, and keep moving forward with confidence. You’ve got this, and I believe in you! 💪✨